Someday, Little Joe Son, someday when you are older, enough to understand, I want you to know about a truly great man! This man you will on Earth never meet. But at the "Eternal Gate it shall be your treat. He was kind, he was good and to all he understood. He would toil from morn' til night with his hands, heart, soul and all his might. He took the well being of others first - even thought it might cause hurt. hurt. His life was good, his life was rich - and yet somehow it seems that his giving and sharing- expecting nothing in return was so rewarding to him, that it was his "fruit of life." He stood by all, whether it be in time of need, sorrow or joy. He knew how to love and he knew how to cry. But most of all, He knew how to die! And still, all who knew him, loved him, and will forever carry memories of "Grandpa Joe." Now My Son, if you understand - You'll be able to walk in the "Footsteps of this Man!" You see My Son, you were named after him. Somehow he knew his work was done, and you would take his place. He was so proud and concerned from the day you were born til the day he died, never a day passed that he didn't come to see you or stand at your side. He only held you once, for he feared he might drop or hurt you! Only a month after your birth, he passed away and you took his place on this "Big Earth!" Now I share with you his words of wisdom - "There is nothing low, wrong or degrading with any job, or the way one lives, so long as it's honest. If You have Peace with yourself...... You will always have Peace with your fellowman." Son, be good -do good, be giving and forgiving. Be kind and considerate. But most of all - "HAVE LOVE!" And when your times up and someone takes your place - You'll meet this man after entering the gate! He'll know You, and You him - Because My Son, You'll say: " Hello! Remember me? I'm Your Little Joe." by Marilyn Bayless
**** Marilyn wrote this poem to our son Lonnie Joe in memory of her grandfather, Joseph A. Bixby in 1970. |